Laying it bare – monthly round up of August Life Lensesâ„¢ blog posts

August 30th, 2011

We’re laying it bare.  Stripping it down.  Peeling back perspective.

In this monthly round up you’ll find the Life Lensesâ„¢ blog posts laid bare for the month of August.

Get bare, dive in deep and take a full look around or simply take a peek. It’s up to you. Regardless, your perspective will thank you.

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How do you say ‘be kind to animals?’

August 25th, 2011

It’s a matter of perspective.

If you’re rule bound, rigid, needing to cover every possibility, fear based and controlling, you may create a sign such as above.

If you’re coming from a place of common sense, kindness, flexibility and faith, you may create an entirely different sign.

Please be kind to the animals.

What’s your perspective?  What lens do you look at the world through? (And what effect does that lens have on your perspective?)

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Backward glance = forward thinking (or what this hilarious shampoo prank can teach us about perspective)

August 23rd, 2011

When we’re in conflict we tend to do more of whatever it is that’s not working.  Yet simply changing your perspective can change the whole game.

What if he’d simply turned around?

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Oh, that I could shrink the surface of the world (for some perspective)…

August 18th, 2011

Wang Chien (AD 756–835) eloquently wrote the above when he heard his friend was coming back from the war.  It came my way recently from a dear friend (thanks Michelle for your muse).

It got me thinking about what creates distance and what creates closeness.

Distance is more than being physically far apart, it’s:

  • not feeling understood or worse, feeling deliberately misunderstood
  • not being able to understand, despite standing on your head for trying
  • not resonating, not relating, not clicking with someone
  • feeling like your colleagues are speaking a foreign language
  • feeling like you’re being denied the secret code of inclusion
  • feeling more uncomfortable than an ice cube on a hot summer’s day
  • thinking you got it, but realizing you didn’t
  • feeling awkward and being embarrassed

Perspective will do that.  It can be cannily inclusive or highly elusive.  Shrinking the surface of the world and bringing us together is about a mutually understood perspective.  Being able to see ‘other.’  Being able to include ‘different’.

Like a Destination Life Lensâ„¢ taking into account a Journey Life Lens’â„¢ need for processing.

Like a Stop Life Lensâ„¢ holding his breath and jumping in, for the sake of a Go Life Lensâ„¢.

Like a Carrot Life Lensâ„¢ knowing not to step in and ‘fix’ what appears a mess, as things do really work out in the end for a Mountain Life Lensâ„¢.

Like a Head Life Lensâ„¢ trying really hard to listen and trust their intuition because she’s seen it work so well for a Heart Life Lensâ„¢.

 

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