Do you have a heavy, non-useful contact? I did.

August 16th, 2011

Oh the possible poetry of language.

And oh what a mess we can make of it, more mess and muck than clear communication.

Take jargon for example.  Professional jargon.  Like a dentist.  Like my dentist (that’s him above).

Despite the hardware in my mouth recently, I had to laugh when he turned to his assistant to talk about my ‘heavy, non-useful contact.’

Far from a large, lazy colleague, turns out a ‘heavy, non-useful contact’ is a tiny bit of a tooth that can stick up and prevent a proper bite.

Check your perspective.  Check your bite.  Check your communication.

 

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Are you consistent with yourself? I hope not.

August 11th, 2011

“We cannot remain consistent with the world save by growing inconsistent with our past selves.” ~ Havelock Ellis (1859-1939).

When I set out to design Life Lensesâ„¢ it was partly due to feeling boxed in by other assessments, assessments which often don’t leave you room to grow.  In fact, if you change what you assess as it’s seen as a bad thing.  Like being right handed or left handed, some assessments claim you can’t be both.  You’re X or Y.  Period.

Almost every time I take Myers Briggs I end up with different results.   And even though I’m certified to give the MBTI assessment I find it generally confuses folks.

Getting back to the right/left handed idea, I may not be able to write with my left hand but my left hand certainly isn’t useless.  Same with Life Lensesâ„¢, which assesses how strong you are for each lens, including whether you’re a tweener and/or extremer.

Tweeners are those who assess right on the border between two lenses.  With a little nudge they could move over and become the other, opposing lens.

Extremers are those who have assessed very strongly with one or more Life Lensesâ„¢.  They’re not on the border, far from it, they’re on the extreme.

So how about it, are you consistent with yourself?

Ellis’ quote is our saving grace for if there’s no growth we’re dull or worse yet, dead.  Here’s a toast to inconsistency, with all it’s muddling, human, foibles.

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A little perspective can be magic … so says Darth Vader

August 9th, 2011

You’ve got to hand it to the brains behind the video below.  A new perspective is magic … or is it?

When it comes to perspective, we’re constantly, unconsciously comparing our view to others.

  • ‘other’ can be odd
  • ‘different’ can be downright weird

But when someone else is looking at our perspective, it’s us that can be the odd one out (though of course we see ourselves as ‘normal, natural and right’).

Look what happens when the view is changed.  Darth Vader is pretty powerful, perspective and all.

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The Journey Life Lensâ„¢ of Loie Fuller’s Danse Serpentine (1896)

August 4th, 2011

Personality traits are telling.  So are assessments.

Compared to my last post, where a quote from Picasso encapsulated Destination Life Lensesâ„¢, this Danse Serpentine video, recorded by modern dancer Loie Fuller in 1896, symbolizes the view from a Journey Life Lensesâ„¢.

There are no straight lines with Journey Life Lenses™.  Their process or journey changes as the need arises.  Hence the flowing lines of the video (and the picture above).

Destination Life Lenses™ and Journey Life Lenses™ are opposites.  Destinations want to get to the point while Journeys are concerned about the process.

 

Personality traits of a Journey Life Lensesâ„¢ on a good day:

  • looks around
  • eye on how things get done
  • includes people in the process

Personality raits of a Journey Life Lensesâ„¢ on a bad day:

  • unfocused
  • doesn’t get anything tangible accomplished
  • no direction

What’s your view?

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