“This is the city and I am one of the citizens …” (Walt Whitman)

January 17th, 2012

“This is the city and I am one of the citizens, whatever interests the rest interests me.”  This is a line from Walt Whitman’s Song of Myself.

It caught my attention for the worldview it includes.  If only we were all so curious and interested in ‘other’, in wrapping difference into our own.

I’m not an English major and reading poetry is not generally a pastime so bear with me. I am interested in words that provide a window into a new way of looking at things.

Like these.  Here are some other intriguing lines from the same poem.

  • “For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you.” (Section 1)

Could it be that even when we seem most different, when we appear like icebergs miles apart, that our underwater bases are actually touching, that we’re more similar than first appearances?

  • “In all people I see myself, none more and not one a barleycorn less/and the good or bad I say of myself I say of them” (Section 20)

When we see ‘other’ we so easily judge (especially when we’re stressed or in conflict).  Examining difference from the lens of intrigue, while batting away judgement, can bring about powerful insight (none less than into our own selves).

  • “It is you talking just as much as myself…I act as the tongue of you” (Section 47)

Others reflect ourselves back to us, especially all our complicated, crazy peccadilloes.

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“In the grand scheme of things we’re all pretty much blind & deaf”

January 12th, 2012

Image & text from Abstruse Goose

This image pretty much says it all.

We can’t take it all in.  Not even close.

Our screen, our radar, is highly selective.

Beyond what we can see, we see what we want to see.  Likewise beyond what we can hear, we hear what we want to hear.

Add the effects of preferences, culture & context to the mix & we’re highly selective creatures with infinitely focused (aka exclusive) worldviews.

Here’s an example – before I had a critter crazy kid I never realized there were so many bugs, frogs & creepy crawlies around.  Did the bug population all of a sudden explode?  No, of course not,  it’s a simple case of my radar being influenced by my kid.

Want to expand your view?  Check out Life Lenses™.

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Finding new in the old – All Night Long (All Night)

January 10th, 2012

From my perspective there’s nothing so relaxing as hitting the dance floor to dance the stress away, which is what I found myself doing a while back in a club in Nairobi.

Truth be told I wasn’t having a fabulous time (music was meh) until the DJ started spinning All Night Long (All Night) by Lionel Ritchie.  Having grown up with this song it was a trip down memory lane, however nothing in my memory prepared me for what unfolded.

It was a case of seeing something old with new eyes.

I figure I’ve listened to that tune at least a couple of hundred times over the years and yet I never knew it contained Swahili.  How could that be?

It’s a case of listening for what you know and what’s on your radar and previous to living in Kenya, Swahili wasn’t on my radar.

Imagine my delight when the club went nuts and sang along in unison when the Swahili part kicked in.  I simply stopped dancing and watched.

When I googled to find the English translation, I couldn’t find anything clear.  Turns out the Swahili words are a mix of things and some of it is made up.  Here are two examples:

“Karamu” is a Swahili word for a party along with a feast.

“Jambo” is a Swahili word for hello.

Regardless it was super fun to see something old through new eyes.  Swahili or no, what’s flying under your radar, under your very nose that you’re missing?

 

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Charlie’s Chocolate Factory – finding a neighbour 14,354 km away

January 5th, 2012

charlie chocolate factoryThe strangest coincidences happen when you’re far, far from home. Like when I was on safari recently in Kenya and met THE Charlie of Charlie’s Chocolate Factory. Charlie is somewhat of a local legend & meeting him & his wife in person was a sweet treat (pun intended).

Charlie’s Chocolate Factory is a family-owned and operated business located in the Vancouver lower mainland. In 1970, after several years of being employed by others, Charlie began the business he loves.

I’ve relocated to Kenya for an adventure filled year. It’s a wonderful opportunity to seek out both differences that make a difference and similarities that are significant.

Differences like being able to out on safari for the weekend & sleep beside a hippo frequented river. Differences like living in a developing country.

Similarities like discovering someone from your hometown while you are 14,354 kilometers away from it. Charlie was travelling with a group of folk, all from my hometown area.

Are we more similar or different? Depends on what you look for.

If you look for only differences that’s only what you’ll find. You’ll miss the bridges that connect us.

If you look for only similarities that’s only what you’ll see. You’ll miss the rich cultural differences that enrich our lives & create intricate mosaics.

What made my weekend was seeking out unique & different experiences while enjoying them with a homegrown neighbour.

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