100% human – Labels are for clothes

May 24th, 2012

labels, diversityLabels are great.

They can take what’s complicated & simplify it.  They can create community (any other mothers of teens out there? any other Canadians living in Kenya?).  They can be shortcuts that bring ease.  They can define & delineate.  Like assessments.  Like Life Lensesâ„¢.

Labels can also be dangerous.

They can bring shortcuts that create lazy, sloppy thinking.  They can take what’s complicated & make it simplistic.  They can create divisiveness.  They can create rigid boxes that are impossible to get out of (fill in the blank: all _____ are bad drivers, or all _____ are good dancers).  They can create walls where windows should be. Like some assessments (hopefully not Life Lensesâ„¢!).

Here’s to labels that are helpful & illuminating.

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‘I would only believe in a God who knew how to dance.’ Friedrich Nietzsche

May 22nd, 2012
God

Photo Credit: AlicePopkorn via Compfight cc

Not many things come to mind that are as entrenched in opinion & perspective as religion.

Entrenched as in I’m right, you’re wrong.

Opinions such as My God rules, yours isn’t even on the radar.

Dichotomous.  Black & white.  Yes or no.  Right or wrong.

I was drawn to Nietzsche’s quote & to the photo for these reasons.  The photo combines such abandon with the discipline of many years of dedicated dance practice.  The quote combines faith & fun.

Shaking it on the dance floor, loosing yourself to the music is a kind of communing, an abandoning, a surrendering … to faith.

Amen!

 

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Everyone smiles in the same language

May 17th, 2012

smileLife Lensesâ„¢ is all about building bridges across different perspectives. Bringing appreciation to ‘other,’ to ‘different.’

Frequently, when conflict is rife, when tempers are hot, when differences are many, when time is short and resources are low, differences can be the only thing on our radar.

While differences are vital, in fact it’s what makes our world hum & zing along, so are similarities.

It’s important to focus on differences that make a difference AND similarities that are significant.

So what’s significant? How about a smile to start. For after all, everyone smiles in the same language.

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Home is a pregnant pause & expat ‘um’

May 15th, 2012

Kenya is my new home.  I’ve moved here after living my entire life in Canada.  I find myself asking people, on a regular basis, where’s home?

If you’ve lived overseas for any length of time you’ll understand the pregnant pause that happens when you ask someone where’s home?

A few ums are thrown in for good measure.  The um is what the Shah brothers, authors of Club Expat – A teenager’s guide to moving overseas, call the expat um.  A slight frown tends to furrow their brow.  Silence ensues.

These are all sure signs that you’ve met someone who has spent a good deal of their time away from the place they were born.

It got me thinking about home.  Some people spend a lifetime searching for it.  Some, like ET travel very, very far to find it after they’ve lost it.

Your home brings to a distinct perspective to your life.

Is home where you are at the moment (whether or not you’re on vacation)?

Is home where you were born?

Is home where your family is?

Is home where you feel the best match to your culture(s)?

Is home a place or a feeling or a combination of both?

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