There are years that ask questions and years that answer

January 6th, 2011

In the book Their Eyes Were Watching God author Zora Neale Hurston writes there were years that ask questions and years that answer.

Besides being a sentence that made me jolt to a stop and ponder, it’s a great way to frame the new year.  Which will it be for you?

Which worldview will broaden your horizons and bring you closer to the edge.  The edge of curiousity, of wonder, of exploring ‘other’ (no matter how bravely or cautiously)?

And which worldview will narrow your perspective, reinforcing what you know to be right and true to the exclusion of all other?

Which worldview will quietly or boldly ask questions?  Questions that wrap their curlicue tail around your noggin, leading you to an expanded view, where exclamation marks crackle and pop like a kid’s cereal, leading to new answers and even more questions.

And which worldview will dampen curiousity, stomping on questions, content with the known, the comfortable, the same, the safe?

I wish for you a year with insightful questions and temporary answers.

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An envious heart makes a treacherous ear

January 4th, 2011

The above quote made me sit up and pay attention, like someone had just offered me a lifetime supply of praline & cream ice cream.  My literary taste buds swooned.

Some authors are so very, very good at saying lots with little.

In Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston, a character proclaims to another that an envious heart makes a treacherous ear, is such an example.

Not only is what we see affected by our beliefs, experiences, mood of the day, context etc. but even what we hear goes through the same sieve that creates our own bite of reality.

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The psychology of email vrs twitter (or pigeons vrs eagles)

December 30th, 2010

We’re really just trussed up pigeons you and I.  Yep, add a few feathers to our daily costumes and you wouldn’t be able to tell the difference between you and my fine feathered friends.

Pigeons you see (pun intended) have terrible eyesight.  Pigeons bob their heads to and fro, to create movement so they can see better.   They know that our attention is naturally caught by movement and that’s why they artificially create it by their constantly bobbing heads.

It’s the same with email.

Email is the old guy on the block.  It’s been around since the early 90’s which is a century in social media speak.  It’s got no movement, no rhythm.  We have to force our heads to bob up and down to pay attention to our inbox.  Get yet another email in your inbox?  Sigh.  Yawn. Yet another thing to do.

Old hat = yawn, boring

Enter twitter.  She be one of the new babies on the block.  No forcing the head to bob here.  Get a DM (direct message) or RT (retweet), now that’s something to pay attention to.

Email makes our heads bob in boredom like a pigeon, a forced paying attention, a grind of the wills.

Twitter makes our head snap sharp like an eagle, eyes glistening, leaning in, toward.

It’s all a matter of perspective.  Like your perspective.  How does your perspective influence how you see the world?

(Kudos to Julie Szabo, my marvelous social media mentor, for the idea for this post.)

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How do you cross the street? Depends on your perspective

December 28th, 2010

What could be easier than moving from one side of the street to the other?

  1. Look left
  2. Look right
  3. When there’s no oncoming traffic, cross the street

Right?  Not so fast.  Crossing the street, like many other daily rituals in our lives, is influenced by that massive lens through which we see the world … culture.

When we’re surrounded by like minds and similar cultures we can press autopilot without knowing it.  Thought bubbles float above our heads:

  • This is the way we’ve always done it.
  • Why would you change anything?
  • You wanna do what?  Huh?
  • I just don’t get you.

Perspective.  It can lead to a view through a straw or a view expander.

Take your pick.  Pick your perspective and cross the street.

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