Perspectives on menstruation. It’s seriously funny. Period.

October 25th, 2011

“Other” can make people squirm.  So can “different.”  It’s the cause of much misunderstanding and strife.

Watch this hilarious video about the reactions of some commuters listening to a dad talking to his daughter about her first period.  Their perspective is very unlike his.

It’s seriously funny.  Period.

Best case scenario?  Someone else’s perspective is wonderful when it illuminates ours.

Worst case scenario? People who look at the world differently from us, people who have another view (opposing or not), can seem odd, weird, unusual, strange even.

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Peace with pants: an evolved Mountain Life Lensâ„¢ is a strategic partner

October 20th, 2011

I’m a Carrot Life Lensâ„¢ and my partner is a Mountain Life Lensâ„¢.   I go gaga over details and systems while he loves the big picture and the view from above.

When we were putting away some laundry lately, I handed him a pair of pants.

‘Which category do these pants go with?’ he asked.

My jaw dropped.

For a Mountain Life Lensâ„¢ to pay attention to a system and details isn’t necessarily easy or even important to them.  That’s why his side of the closet is what I’d call a mess and my side of the closet …. well, let’s just say I have a system for where things go.

He’s an evolved and understanding Mountain Life Lensâ„¢ and a very smart partner.

What about you?  What does your closet say about your Carrot’ness or Mountain’ness?

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Good intentions mean naught to a Go Life Lensâ„¢

October 18th, 2011

“Remember, people will judge you by your actions, not your intentions.  You may have a heart of gold – but so does a hard boiled egg.” Anonymous

This perfectly sizes up the strengths of a Go Life Lensâ„¢ – action’s where it’s at.

Pay attention Stop Life Lensâ„¢ for this can be your downfall on a bad day a.k.a. analysis paralysis.

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See ME! Relate to ME! A guide for managing change

October 13th, 2011

My son & I bought some new soccer equipment for him the other day.  Afterwards he was ogling his new purchases, including the box that the soccer shoes came in (see said box above).

If you take a closer look, the cleverly designed box compares your shoe size to other things.  If, for example, you’re an infant size 5 then your foot is the same size as a blues harmonica (see the side of the box picture below).

A wee bit bigger than an infant?

 

If you’re a men’s size 15 1/2 your foot is the same size purportedly as a gangsters’ gold chain (see second picture for more comparisons).

This is a great example of relating something known and familiar (your feet) to something new and creative.

It changes your perspective of your feet by comparing what you know and are (presumably) comfortable with to something novel.

When you’re introducing a new concept, especially one that you think may be unwelcome or feared, start with what’s known and familiar.

For a Mountain Life Lens™ start with the big picture.  For a Carrot Life Lens™ start with the details.

For a Journey Life Lensâ„¢ start with focusing on the process, whereas for a Destination Life Lensâ„¢ let people know where you’re headed.

For a Heart Life Lensâ„¢ focus on intuition, but for a Head Life Lensâ„¢ pay attention to the facts.

And finally for a Stop Life Lensâ„¢ make sure there’s time for reflection while with a Go Life Lensâ„¢ let people jump in and get started.

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