Our own perspectives – how we see the world – seem natural, normal and RIGHT, especially when we are under stress. When in conflict we tend to do more of what ISN’T working. Like saying the same thing over and over and over.
How many times do we bang our heads against the door trying to get people to see things our way, when we’re stubbornly resistant to seeing things others’ way?
You can try pushing but maybe try pulling from time to time.
Note: I originally saw this photo in a presentation by the wonderful Brene Brown.